Love cannot be built: 4 zodiac signs that most often end up in codependent relationships
Hayblog.am tell you which signs need to be careful when choosing a partner.
Codependency is the type of relationship where one partner endlessly saves the other. Moreover, this is not always a gesture of goodwill – often a codependent person saves his partner only in order to receive gratitude and make sure that he will never leave him. Such people are often overprotective of others due to the desire to be comfortable and the inability to defend their boundaries. We’ll tell you which signs fall into codependency more often than others – and why.
Cancer (June 21 – July 22)
In astrology, Cancer personifies the mother archetype – these are caring people who want to guide their partner on the right path. This is why Cancers end up in codependent relationships – if they have found “their” person, they will look after him to the last. Often this turns into sacrifice on the part of Cancer – and then into resentment when his efforts are not appreciated. In other words, Cancer constantly puts its needs lower than the needs of its partner, and withdraws into itself if the partner does not do the same.
Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
Virgos are born to correct the imperfections of this planet. Therefore, they will correct their partner so scrupulously, as if this is not just a person, but the project of their whole life. If a partner has obvious disadvantages, they see them not as a “problem”, but as a “difficulty” that needs to be overcome. Wanting to be useful, Virgos spend all their energy on other people and perceive their failures as their own. However, the sign has its own benefit (albeit unconscious) – Virgos save their partner, in the hope that then he will never leave them.
Libra (September 23 – October 22)
Libras seem carefree and independent of people – but, in fact, they perceive themselves through the prism of romantic relationships. In other words, if there is a partner, then Libra’s life is wonderful, but if he is not there, their self-esteem begins to collapse, and in general everything in life (work, friends, family) becomes unimportant. Therefore, Libra often saves relationships “to the bitter end” in which, it seems, there is no longer a glimmer.
Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
In relationships, Pisces tend to wear rose-colored glasses – so a partner with a baggage of shortcomings seems ideal to them, and everyone who tries to save Pisces from a failed relationship immediately finds themselves on the list of enemies. If Pisces discover their partner’s shortcomings, they try to help him so that the picture of their life becomes flawless again. All because of the intangible nature of Pisces – if a partner loves them (or pretends to), then Pisces are ready to forgive him all his vices.